How it works

An easy evening of new friends.

A MyCheekySocial evening is a relaxed, host-led night out where you meet everyone in the room, one conversation at a time: a modern take on speed friending. No name tags, no ice-breakers, no shouting over a microphone.

BeforeA few minutes online
  1. 1

    Choose your evening

    Pick your city and the evening that suits you, then reserve your place online. Every evening is hosted, kept to a comfortable size, and backed by The MyCheekySocial Guarantee: five days' notice or five seconds, your ticket never expires.

  2. 2

    Set up your Smart-Card

    You'll get a link to your digital Smart-Card. Open it on your phone or laptop, check the details and add a photo. There's no app to download.

On the nightAbout two hours
  1. 3

    Arrive and settle in

    Come at the listed start time, grab a drink and get comfortable. Your host waits until everyone has arrived and shows you how the Smart-Card works.

  2. 4

    Meet everyone in the room

    You'll chat with each guest for five to six minutes, with a short intermission halfway. On your Smart-Card, quietly mark who you'd like to see again.

  3. 5

    Stay and mingle

    When the rounds finish, stay as long as you like. Many of the best conversations carry on well into the evening.

AfterBy midnight
  1. 6

    Find your friends

    Finalize your picks by midnight. If someone picked you too, it's a friend match, and we'll email you both a first name and contact email, usually within 24 hours. The rest is up to you.

Your Smart-Card

Who you'd like to see again, kept private.

The Smart-Card is your digital connection card for the evening. It shows everyone you'll meet, so you can quietly mark the people you clicked with.

  • Private. Nobody sees your picks.
  • Mutual only. Details are shared only when you both choose each other.
  • No app. It works in your phone or laptop browser.

Good to know

The details, at a glance.

16–20Guests at most evenings. Enough for variety, small enough for real conversation.
5–6 minWith each person. Rounds may be a little shorter at bigger evenings.
About 2 hrsIncluding intermission. Stay afterwards for as long as you like.
Bring a friendEveryone needs a ticket. Email us ahead and we'll seat you near each other.
FoodVaries by venue. Some offer light bites or happy-hour specials. Eat before or stay after.
BookingOnline only. Reserve in advance. Sold out? Email us to join the wait list.

Be lovely.

We have zero tolerance for unkindness or rudeness, and anyone who makes others uncomfortable may be asked to leave. Guests who bring warmth and good spirit are often invited back as our guest, and into the MyCheekySocial Circle.

Your next friend is already in the room.

Choose your city and we'll send you the evenings coming up near you.

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