About us

We think the best friendships start in person.

MyCheekySocial hosts structured social evenings for men and women who want to widen their circle. It's a modern take on speed friending, in 13 cities. Everyone in the room is there to make friends, and that's the whole point.

Why we started

Making friends as an adult got harder.

People move cities for work, friends settle down or scatter, and more of us work from home. We've never been more connected online, yet a follow or a like rarely becomes someone you'd call on a Friday night.

So we took the structured, host-led format we've refined since 2007 and built it for friendship: a relaxed room, a thoughtful host, and the chance to have a proper conversation with everyone there. No awkward mingling, no wondering who to talk to.

Cheeky playful, warm and good-natured. The spirit we bring to every evening.

What we believe

Three things every evening gets right.

Structure

Without the pressure

A simple rotation means you meet everyone, five to six minutes at a time. You never have to break into a group or wonder who to talk to next.

Kindness

Is the whole point

We have zero tolerance for rudeness. The guests who put others at ease are the ones we invite back, and they set the tone for everyone.

Real life

Not another screen

Chosen venues, warm lighting, a good drink and real conversation. No name tags, no bells, no shouting over a microphone.

You can't apply. You get noticed.

The MyCheekySocial Circle

At every evening, a few guests stand out for the right reasons. Our hosts notice, and they're invited into the MyCheekySocial Circle, our free, invite-only community. Circle members are first on the guest list and receive invitations to private gatherings, social events, activity outings and networking evenings.

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Hosting evenings since 2007

The Constellation

MyCheekySocial is part of the Constellation, a group of in-person brands for dating, friendship and networking, hosting evenings since 2007. Each brand is distinct, and its standout guests form its own circle. Circle members are the first guests we invite across the Constellation, so your social world keeps growing.

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All operated by The Cheeky Lab, LLC, in Calabasas, California.

Your next friend is already in the room.

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